THE ART OF BEING SMOOTH
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10 Foolproof Ways To Make
Yourself
More Interesting To Beautiful Women
10) Charm Her Friends
A new girl you've got your sites on?... Well, forget about her for the
time being, and do what it takes to charm her friends. Once her friends are
talking about you, if the original woman didn't know you existed a short time
before, rest assured that she knows now. No matter
what happens, remember not to get with her friends, only charm them... and (as
said before), learn to tease them with your presence. Once her friends decide
that you are a challenge, she'll pick this up from the way they talk about you
and act around you... and
the effect is that much greater.
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CONVERSATION DYNAMICS
INTRODUCTION
Conversational skills will make you, and lack of them will break you.
You may be the homeliest guy on the planet, but if you're good with words you
can still have some serious game with women. It's not hard to be good with words
- just pay attention to what you say and how you say it. Speak audibly - don't
mumble or stutter, and put life into your hello's and goodbyes.
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HOW TO BE A TRUE PLAYER
INTRODUCING THE 'KILLER INSTINCT
Most women are attracted to
players. But many have too much of an ego to get with one. If they know that
you're a player, then they know that there's a chance that they're going to get
played and they don't want to give you that power. So never show your true
colors.
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Charisma: An Overview
"charisma (n) : a personal attractiveness that enables you to
influence others"
Seduction has always been the most talked about art,
and that is because it is more easily grasped. Learning the art of seduction is
retrospective (looking outward), while charisma is introspective (looking
inward). Charisma is the ultimate state of mind...
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THE FIRST ELEMENT: MANNER
"manner (n) : a way of acting or behaving"
If your presence and regal bearing have given women the impression that
you're an important person and that you're considered an important person by
others, manner, as we use it here, refers to how you act and behave in relation.
What, then, is the manner of a charismatic persona?
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THE SECOND ELEMENT: ENIGMA
"enigma (n) : An action, mode of action, or thing, which cannot be
satisfactorily explained"
In a world growing increasingly dull and
familiar, what seems enigmatic instantly draws attention. Especially when it
comes to today's dating / relationship arena. Many women tend to rate guys in
the same grouping: little self-control, jerks when they don't get what they
want, egotistical, loud, boring, macho, aggressive. . . So anything you can do
to distance yourself from this group of "typical guys" stands to get you noticed
- because your distance cannot be quickly and easily explained.
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THE THIRD ELEMENT: ALLURE
"allure (n) : the power to entice or attract through personal charm "
Ah, the last of the elements. It is the essence of charisma. But without the
other elements, it would never be reached. When we've mentioned "aura" as a part
of charisma, allure is that aura. It is infective. Women and guys alike
are drawn in. Suddenly you find yourself surrounded by many friends and
girlfriends ("groupies"). And once in your presence, it's hard for them to distance themselves - as
long as you continue to pay attention to each individual element. For example,
diplomacy: When you excel in diplomacy, you learn to make others feel better about
themselves, becoming a source of pleasure to them. In fact, they grow dependent
on your manner to feel good about themselves. You may
call them friends, but psychologically they become your followers. Other people
read this - and enigma kicks in and heightens the effect: these other people
start to wonder subconsciously: There must be something exceptional ("cool" or
"charming") about you that's making people want to be around you. . . What is
it? Imaginations start to race.
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