10 Foolproof Ways To Make Yourself
More Interesting To Beautiful Women

9) Girls Just Want To Have Fun

8) Talk AT Her, Not With Her

7) To Be Cool Or Not To Be

6) It's Not Rejection When It's Her Loss

The Instant Pick-Up

Instant "pick-up" is most effective when a pleasant greeting is exchanged within a few seconds of encountering each other and making eye contact. If she holds eye contact momentarily, take this as an opening to say hi . A confident guy who understands women knows that he's going to seem arrogant if he approaches her without an invitation, and so you're better off always waiting for an invitation. Women perceive guys who approach them without an invitation as either arrogant or clueless - or both.

Men who are accustomed to being successful with women consider momentary eye contact as an invitation to make an approach... And (as instructed much more in depth in the members section of Dating-Insider.com), women are strongly attracted to men who are used to being successful with women.

It's almost as if beautiful women are looking for men who belong to an exclusive club, and so you'd better present yourself as if you're a member of this club.

Your goal is to come across as a man who is used to being successful with women. However, the longer it takes you to make the approach, the less confident she'll think you are, and the less chances she will perceive you as this type of guy.

A good rule of thumb is to say a pleasant greeting within a moment of first encountering a beautiful woman who shows you open body language. You are seducing her with your boldness of character... Most men who encounter a beautiful women grow suddenly anxious and become too scared to talk to her. (Refer to Foolproof Rule # 1 at the top of this article!)

Rejection is the furthest thing from the minds of guys who belong to "the club" (as referred to in a previous paragraph). If a woman isn't interested in this type of guy and simply gives him a cold shoulder, this guy doesn't take it as rejection as in his mind it's no loss to him... it's no big deal. It goes with the territory, so to speak. She might have a boyfriend, might be engaged, might be experiencing PMS... or simply have a few screws loose in her head. The guy doesn't beat himself up over it, because his self-esteem is too high to allow it. He goes on as if it's her loss... because in his mind, it is.

This is how guys with high self-esteem think, and this is why they are successful with women, time and time again. They don't beat themselves up over the ones that get away. They just keep casting in their line, and wait for one to bite.

When you do things right, one always will.

5) Curse Of The Needy

4) Never Wonder

3) Poise & Attitude Conquer Looks Every Time

Average looking guys often blame their lack of "gorgeous" looks as why they can't land women... And gorgeous guys that don't land women don't know WHAT to blame - these guys know that they are good looking, and so when they fail with women they become confused, depressed, and destroy their self-esteem in the process.

The secret is that it's not about looks, but the proper poise and attitude - Carrying yourself with high self-esteem, and also saying those things/doing those things that reflect your high self-esteem.

Many women will even rate an average-looking man with high self-esteem esteem/confidence as better looking (more attractive) than a "good-looking" man with lower self-esteem/confidence. And even if they do rank the "good-looking" man higher... They would ALL prefer the more confident one.

Many guys wonder WHAT to say when meeting women... In reality, it's not about what you say, it's about HOW you say it. For example, one powerful word for introducing yourself to women is "Hi". Saying it in a nervous/timid voice gives a woman the initial impression that you're a nervous/timid type. However, saying it in a confident/friendly voice tells women that you're the confident/friendly type most sought after by women and the chances are greater she'll want to get to know you to see if this is really the case.

So make sure it is. On a scale of 1 - 10 of speech-confidence (where 1 is lowest and 10 is highest), if you're currently at a 3, there are some simple exercises you can do to increase your speech-confidence level to a 9, even a 10. Grab a book, and in the privacy of your own home, spend 10 - 15 minutes a day reading aloud. With each sentence, sound out each syllable clearly, and speak with volume. Also, focus on authority, and focus on sounding friendly. Soon enough it will come to you. And soon enough, you'll be using it to charm everyone you come in contact with. Psychologically, confidence is like casting a spell. Because most people aren't very confident... and so they admire the few who are.

2) yellow Suede Shoes

1) The Golden Rule

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